I’m not a fearless traveler. I don’t bounce into a country, speak a new language badly but confidently, adventurously trek into backstreet restaurants and proceed to try the most ethnic dish on the menu.
No, that’s not me. I can be timid. It can take me days to warm up, to feel comfortable in new surroundings. I don’t walk around scared, but I do feel unsure a lot of the time.
Dolmabahce Palace, right on the Bosphorous. |
The easy way out, I suppose, would have been to have joined a tour group, or to have stayed in a hotel in the touristy part of town. I’d be assured of groups of English speakers, menus in English, easy transportation (in English!) to and from the sights.
Ah, but again – that’s not me.
My dad likes to say that I was the kid who started preparing my mom and him for my eventual flight from my childhood home. I went to summer camp (I was a homesick child who hated summer camp; I went anyway), then enrolling in a residential high school summer program. I went away to college, lived abroad for a semester, moved to San Francisco. These were not easy things to do at the time. I was taking risks, becoming more independent. And I grew – a lot.
My apartment is on top of that hill, in a neighborhood called Cihangir. |
So when I was planning this trip to Turkey, I decided to rent an apartment in a non-touristy part of the city. I admit that it’s been challenging at times – I have to navigate menus and bus maps and decipher the many types of Turkish cheese sold at the market. But it’s also been so rewarding. I’ve met a lot of lovely (mostly Turkish) people, including Billur, my social and super-helpful landlady. I’ve discovered neighborhood bars, gotten recommendations for restaurants and cafes. Along the way, I’ve fallen in love with this beautiful, sprawling, chaotic city.
Bar snacks! |
In the end, isn’t this why we travel? Not just to see the sights, but to stretch ourselves, to have our own fears and beliefs challenged, and – of course – to have an amazing time.
You are SO my shero, Jen. I can’t wait to “hear” and see more!
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